Baby!!!! :)

Kevin shared this today in church and I wanted to share it for those who couldn't be there...

Yes. I AM Pregnant! I am due June 11, which makes me just over 14 weeks. Kevin and I are beyond excited. I have been feeling good for the most part, just sleeping every chance I get :). Kevin is taking excellent care of me and I am so thankful for a husband that loves me as much as he does.

Ok. So, in February of this year, we found out that I had a miscarriage. It was the hardest thing we had ever gone through. God did so much in our lives during that time and for that, I am thankful.

Now, the cool part.

I share that part, to tell you the cool part. 7 months later, ON the due date of the baby that we had lost- we found out that I was pregnant again! How cool is our God??? It made it so much more amazing.

It wasn't a coincidence, it was GOD- no doubt about it.

We are SO thankful for all of the "Congratulations" we have already gotten and would appreciate your prayers! I probably won't be updating that much and we currently don't have a working digital camera, so if you want to know how I am doing, just ask.

Thank you for all of your parts in our lives and we are so excited to finally share this awesome news with everyone!!

love you!!!

3 years.

we've been married for 3 years.

it's been an incredible 3 years.

this last year has been the best and craziest, yet.

i am so thankful to have married a husband full of love, compassion, hotness(yep:)), hard work, wisdom, forgiveness, joy, silliness, leadership, integrity, and humbleness.

he is such an example and inspiration to so many and i am honored to be mrs. mattison. :)

i am excited for the many more years to come.

tonight = sushi celebration :).

I love you, Kevin.

Just being honest...

Today didn't start out that great...so...instead of being a bummer ALL day long, I read God's word and started talking to Him about it. Did it help? YEP!


When days like this come along, I love to list the things that I am thankful for. It is a great way to actually see what God has done in my life and helps put a smile back on my face and loving God more, and more, and more. :)


Today, I want to share my list with you:



-phone calls from my sister.


-teenagers who come to visit from 10 hours away.


-a husband who is trying his best at learning how to comfort me when I'm sick :) and doing a really good job.


-a mom who gives the best advice. ever.

-a dad I can call for help when I've hurt my back pulling weeds.


-teenagers...all of them.


-Butler First United Methodist.


-Moody for accepting my husband. :)


-great adult leaders who gives Kevin a cookie cake when he gets into college.

-friends.


-friends in Belfast, Northern Ireland.


-friends who call me.


-food in my fridge.


-spending beautiful days in Pittsburgh with Kevin, driving around, walking and enjoying bookstores while not having to buy anything. ;)


-3 years of marriage next week!!!!!!



-a job.


-sunshine.


-the Bible online.


-a car that works.


-dance.


-duffer.


-our house.


-having happy friends.


-a brother who can ALWAYS make me smile.





-Being able to see TWO old friends while in Fort Wayne last week! good times.

Ok. That is just a few and I added some pictures for fun :). I hope you're all having a great day.

What are you thankful for today?

Lessons from Bud #2

ok, I know it took me awhile, but I did say there would be another post about my friend, Bud. In the first post I told you who Bud was, so if you forget you could scroll down to help refresh your memory :). I talked about how I want him to know Jesus and how people come into our lives and we never know how long they will be there...so make the MOST of EVERY opportunity!

My last blog post I talked about loving people better.

Now, I'm gonna kind tie those two together and tell you how Bud helped me love better. :)

I am going to be completely honest and say that aside from my grandparents, I haven't really spent much time with anyone over 60. I just chose not to. I have a very ADD personality and need to keep moving 99% of the time so I always thought it was "boring" to sit and have "adult" conversations. :/

Well. That's not always a good thing. Honestly, through talking to Bud...that who perspective I had changed.

Here, read this...

1 Timothy 5: 1 Never speak harshly to an older man, but appeal to him respectfully as you would to your own father. Talk to younger men as you would to your own brothers. 2 Treat older women as you would your mother, and treat younger women with all purity as you would your own sisters.

and...that's just part of it. The Bible has specific instructions on how we are supposed to treat our elders. And it all comes down to... LOVING THEM! When we REALLY love them, we will want to spend time with them, learn from them, and take care of them in any way we can!

Last Saturday I saw Bud :). I asked him if he was going to church for Easter and this was his response, "Well, I went yesterday and I don't know about tomorrow yet. But I'll tell you what I am gonna do. I'm gonna hide an egg for myself tonight and look for it in the morning. By then, I'll probably forget where I put it" hehe. That story was just for fun.

Bud helped me learn how to love my elders. I now really enjoy talking to them and spending time with them. I love hearing about things they have learned over the years. I call my grandparents more now than ever and I'm even going to the Science Museum just so I can tour a submarine just like one my Grandpa was on...

I am so thankful for people like Bud that will sit and have conversations with me. I have SO much to learn.

learning to love...

For those of you who don't know me very well, I want you to know that I LOVE people. I really enjoy talking to people, listening to people, hugging people and a lot of other things that involve people :). For those of you who know me well, I'm pretty sure you knew that :).
So, even though I LOVE people, I am still learning new ways TO love them everyday. Here is a verse in 1 John that I read this morning about love...

1 John 3:18-20 18 Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. 19 Our actions will show that we belong to the truth, so we will be confident when we stand before God. 20 Even if we feel guilty, God is greater than our feelings, and he knows everything.

Our actions mean so much! I want to be better at SHOWING people I love them! That means, taking MORE time, MORE energy, MORE everything to love...
I am surrounded by people who do an awesome job at loving me, I wanted to share just a couple of ways people have showed me they love me recently:

~my mom and sister drove 5.5 hours to see me (sure, the outlets are on the way...but im pretty sure they came for me :)
~my sister told me to sit in the front seat, even though I know she wanted to ;)
~my friend text me to see how I was feeling on the day that she gave birth!! (AND while she was in labor!!!)
~my husband took my car to get it inspected before he took his own
~my husband is buying draino and bleach for me today :)
~my sister spent time helping me find clothes for work, rather than getting some for herself
~one of the teenagers order food for kevin and I last night because we got tied up at church longer than we thought
~another one of the teenagers went grocery shopping with me AND help me put it away! (sooooo...thankful for that!)

Those are just a couple that came to my mind right now...I am so thankful for those around me who show their love in different ways!
Now, it's time to get better at REALLY loving people...Here are some ways we can start:
~clean our rooms, WITHOUT our parents asking
~holding the door for someone and letting them walk through first
~choosing to do something that your friend likes, instead of what you would have liked to do
~send random texts, emails, facebooks (is that something?), or phone calls...
~mow our neighbors yard...without them asking or paying!
~hug more
~give someone a ride, even if it's out of the way
~give food to someone who doesnt have any

Those are JUST a couple...
How will you SHOW your love this week?

I LOVE YOU!

quotes...

My new favorite quote:

"Dont not think that love, in order to be genuine, has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired."

Mother Teresa

my strength and comfort...

I am not going to go into details, but this has been one of the hardest weeks of my life...here is how I'm getting through it and why I choose joy.

Maybe you need this as much as I did...I really feel like I needed to share it.

Psalm 18:30 God's way is perfect. All the Lord's promises prove true. He is a shield to all who look to him for protection.


Matthew 11:28-30 Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.”

Lesson's from Bud #1

Ok, I'm gonna warn you...it's a little long!

Yes, it's true...after 5 different Starbucks in 4 different states, I am saying goodbye.

I have LOVED working at Starbucks. I love the people, the fast pace, the coffee :), Howard Shultz, the multi-tasking, the fact that i was able to transfer so many times, and the people!

Have I mentioned the people? I am so incredibly thankful for the people, both partners and customers, that I have been able to meet and spend time with. Each Starbucks has been SO different, but SO great in their own ways. We have had customers that know us so well that they bring us cookies, Christmas and Birthday cards and even sit and have coffee with us when they are coming through on our break.

One of my favorite people, is Bud. I think that I have said things about him before , but I don't remember what...so just act like this is the first time :). Bud is 75 years old and it has only been 1 year and 2 months since he lost his wife to cancer. He comes to Starbucks every morning for hours, just sitting and drinking his coffee. Most of the time his friend Dave joins him. WE all know him and even celebrated his birthday with him, most of the customers walk in to say hello to us AND Bud. :)

Today, Kevin and I stopped by the store and there sat Bud. I sat down next to him and he gave me a hug and made a comment about how I had eye make-up on and no hat! haha and told me his daughter was making him go to Florida so he wouldn't be here in a week. He wanted to make sure that if I came to the store he would be there.

Starbucks is his family (and the people at Kings, where he goes for lunch...everyday!). Tears are beginning to come to my eyes as I think about him. I want so badly for him to know Jesus. Yes, we have talked about it...way more than once. He is just so lonely, the only thing I can do now is pray. Pray that the things I have said, he will remember and that there is someone else God is putting in his life to start where I left off.

That's the thing...God put people in our lives for a reason and we have THAT time to be Jesus to them. We never know how long that time may be. When those people leave our lives, it can be REALLY hard, REALLY hard. But PRAYER is such a POWERFUL weapon and if we pray, lives WILL be changed. I can't put myself down for the fact that Bud does not YET believe, I can PRAY...and I will. LOTS. Not only for him, but for all the others I know that don't YET know God and when I spend time with them...I will love them and be Jesus as best as I can.

If you've stuck with me the whole time to read this...thank you :) There is more I have learned from Bud, that will come soon!

love you!
Happy Thursday!

Fruits of the Spirit in a new light.

Yesterday on my way to work I was praying and I began asking God to help me live out the Fruits of the Spirit. It really changed my day and I wanted to share it with you. It went a little something like this;

God, please help me to:
LOVE you first and others before myself,
choose JOY no matter what happens,
keep PEACE in my attitude and actions,
be PATIENT with everyone and everything, even when it's extra hard,
treat others with KINDNESS first,
be GOOD with my thoughts and actions,
be FAITHFUL to YOU, my husband, friends, parents and siblings,
let my words be GENTLE toward everyone,
and help me have the SELF-CONTROL I need to make the right choices that please YOU.

The Fruits of the Spirit are such great and practical ways to bring us closer to Jesus! I want them to be more evident in my life everyday!

Happy Saturday!
Love you!


Just for fun, here is a picture of my family on Christmas day :). We took many pictures with all of our cameras, so this is just one of the funny ones for those of you who don't have facebook :). I LOVE this picture! :)